It wasn’t until the third course was whisked away, a delightful black bean soup, that I started to settle into my chair, less interested in whether my neighbor was cringing at the sound of me slurping from my spoon and more attuned to the way my mind started to pleasantly wander. As a mother with a toddler at home in New York, my life is rarely graced with stillness. Usually, I like it that way. However, in this pocket of reprieve, where nobody needed anything from me, nobody could reach me, and I had only the vantage point of my own self for 90 whole, consecutive minutes, part of me started to shift. My shoulders fell away from my ears, I breathed deeper, and the voice in my head went from rattling through my endless to-do list to something closer to reflection. Without my brain sprinting forward, I recounted a favorite line from a book I’d read last summer that I’d written down in my Notes app and promptly forgot entirely. A montage of images of my daughter’s childhood sauntered by, and the ending to an article I was working on simply came to me, my writer’s block annihilated so immediately that the moment felt anticlimactic. I wasn’t trying to do anything in particular, I just was. And in that was-ness, silence became an opportunity to listen, make connections, and offer surprises. When the bell tolled 90 minutes later, I wasn’t the only one to involuntarily jolt from my cocoon of calm.
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All of us stayed after to share our observations with the group. One of the women said she’d never smiled at so many people in a room before. An older gentleman said he had pretended like he had been sharing a meal with his late wife, which prompted his neighbor to lean over and give him a hug. Our guide thanked the person next to her who helped interpret her request for salt, the two having worked together to signal the desire to the waiter. Without conversation to fill the space between us, we became more attuned to each other—and to ourselves. Silence, it turned out, wasn’t isolating us; it was offering us a different way to connect.
As our evening concluded, nobody rushed to leave. People lingered, trading observations and phone numbers. During the dinner, we had all retreated into our own little worlds, but we left having, somehow, shared one.
